Goodbye 2024, I'm coming for you 2025!

Goodbye, 2024 – You Tried It! Hello, 2025 – Let’s Do This!

As I sit here with a cup of tea (okay, maybe it’s hot chocolate loaded with marshmallows, don’t judge), I can’t help but reflect on the rollercoaster that was 2024. Let’s just say, it wasn’t all sunshine and rainbows, but hey, we survived, right? From heartbreaks that lead to a breakthrough, lessons learned. 2024 was a year of lessons and in 2025, I'm taking it by the horns, and anyone who tries to stand in my way, beware!

2024: The Good, The Bad, and The Meh

2024 came in hot with a lot of promise. I was ready to conquer the world… but then life had other plans. There were struggles, setbacks, and a few letdowns that felt like a punch to the gut. From unexpected work drama to personal goals that stayed in the “maybe next year” folder, it was a year of struggles and lessons.

But here’s the thing about struggles: they’re like the annoying friend who shows up uninvited but teaches you something valuable before leaving. And 2024? Oh, it taught me resilience, patience, and the power of showing up for myself even when the vibes weren’t vibing.

Whether it was missed opportunities, strained relationships, or just feeling like I wasn’t where I "should" be, I had my share of tearful nights. But guess what? Every heartbreak taught me a little more about my own strength.

There were days I didn’t feel like showing up for myself, much less anyone else. But in the quiet moments of self-reflection, I realized something huge: failure isn’t final—it’s fuel for the next chapter.

Goals for 2025: New Year, Who This?

I’m ready to flip the script. Here are my top 6 goals for the year ahead, and honestly, I’m so hyped just thinking about them:

1. Travel More✈️

2025 is officially my “Year of Wanderlust,” and I’m ready to make it unforgettable. Life is too short to stay in one place, so this year, I’m packing my bags (and my sense of adventure) to explore both near and far.

Let’s start local. Oklahoma has so much history, culture, and hidden gems, and I’m determined to uncover them all. From charming small towns with their unique stories to vibrant festivals and nature trails, there’s a world of adventure right in my backyard. I want to immerse myself in local culture, taste regional delicacies, and learn about the history that shaped the place I call home.

Then there’s the call of the road. Weekend getaways are on my radar—think cozy cabins, lakeside retreats, and scenic road trips. There’s something magical about hopping in the car with a playlist full of feel-good songs and seeing where the road takes you. I’m ready for those spontaneous moments that turn into lifelong memories.

Travel, for me, is more than just a change of scenery. It’s about growth, connection, and finding pieces of yourself in places you’ve never been. In 2025, I’m not just collecting stamps in my passport—I’m collecting stories, experiences, and memories that will stay with me forever.

So here’s to embracing wanderlust, discovering the unknown, and making every trip—big or small—a journey worth remembering. 🌍✨

2. Love Myself More❤️

If 2024 taught me one thing, it’s that self-love isn’t just a buzzword or a trendy hashtag—it’s the foundation for everything. Loving yourself is hard work, but it’s also the most rewarding thing you can do. In 2025, I’m committing to making self-love a daily practice, not just something I turn to when life gets overwhelming.

So what does self-love look like for me? It starts with treating myself with the same kindness and understanding that I give to others. In 2024, I was my own harshest critic, quick to judge myself for not being “enough” in so many ways—smart enough, strong enough, successful enough. That stops now. In 2025, I’m flipping the narrative.

Self-love means setting boundaries and actually sticking to them. It’s about protecting my peace and saying “no” to people, situations, or commitments that drain me. I’ve learned that “no” is a complete sentence and doesn’t need an apology or explanation.

It’s also about embracing my imperfections and seeing them as part of what makes me unique. No more hiding or shrinking myself to fit into someone else’s mold. Whether it’s rocking my natural hair, wearing clothes that make me feel fabulous (not just trendy), or celebrating my body at every stage of my journey, I’m done holding myself to unrealistic standards.

Self-love isn’t just about boundaries and acceptance; it’s about joy, too. In 2025, I’m going all-in on solo dates and little indulgences that make me smile. Whether it’s treating myself to an extra scoop of gelato, spending a quiet afternoon with a book and a latte, or planning a day at the spa just because, I’m learning to prioritize what makes me happy.

Another part of this journey? Gratitude. I want to celebrate my wins—big and small—and appreciate the progress I’ve made, even if it doesn’t look like someone else’s. From nailing a work project to simply getting out of bed on a tough day, every victory deserves recognition.

Lastly, I’m making self-care non-negotiable. This means prioritizing my mental and physical health, whether that’s journaling to work through my emotions, meditating to find clarity, or even just going for a walk to clear my head. I’m learning that taking care of myself isn’t selfish; it’s essential.

Loving yourself is a journey, not a destination. Some days, it’ll be easy to look in the mirror and say, “You’ve got this.” Other days, it’ll be a challenge. But in 2025, I’m choosing to show up for myself every single day. Because when you truly love yourself, you open the door for everything else to fall into place

3. Try New Things😋

Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt stuck in a rut 🙋🏽‍♀️. Same here—and I’m over it. In 2025, I’m shaking things up and stepping outside my comfort zone in a big way. This year, I’m saying “yes” to new adventures, hobbies, and experiences that challenge me, excite me, and maybe even scare me a little.

Here’s the thing: life’s too short to stay in your comfort zone. Trying new things isn’t just about the experience—it’s about discovering parts of yourself you didn’t know existed. It’s about breaking free from routines and finding joy in the unexpected.

So, 2025 is officially my “Year of Yes.” Yes to spontaneity, yes to challenges, and yes to adventures that make my heart race. If it’s new, exciting, or just plain fun, count me in. Let’s make this the year we all embrace the unknown and grow in ways we never imagined. Who’s with me? 

4. Go After What Truly Makes Me Happy✨

This one’s huge. For so long, I’ve let fear or practicality talk me out of chasing what really lights me up. But not in 2025. This year, I’m giving myself full permission to go after the things that bring me joy—whether that’s pursuing a passion project, spending more time with loved ones, or just letting myself dream big. Life is too short to live it for anyone else, and I’m finally ready to own that.

5. Launch My Podcast 🤳

This is the one I’m most excited (and terrified) about. In 2025, I’m finally bringing my dream podcast to life. It’ll be a space for raw, unfiltered conversations about pop culture, personal growth, and figuring out life’s chaos.

Expect episodes packed with laughter, relatable moments, and the kind of advice that feels like chatting with your best friend. I want this podcast to be a comforting corner of the internet, where we can learn, laugh, and grow together. And yes, there will definitely be a few “did they just say that?” moments—because life’s too short to stay serious for too long!

6. Turn This Blog into a Happy Place for Everyone👑

When I first started this blog, it was just my little slice of the internet—a space to share my thoughts and adventures. But in 2025, I want to turn it into something bigger: a digital hug for anyone who visits.

Here’s what’s in store:

• Inspirational Content: Whether you’re chasing your dreams or just trying to get through the day, I’ll be here with words to lift you up.

• Laughs & Real Talk: Life is messy, and I’m not about to sugarcoat it. From relatable moments to pop culture rants, we’re keeping it 100% real.

• Community Vibes: I want this to feel like our space—a place where you can connect, share your wins, and find support when you need it most.

  
  

Cheers to 2025: A Year of Possibility

As we close the book on 2024, I’m choosing to carry its lessons with gratitude. Yes, it was a year of struggles, setbacks, and unexpected twists, but it was also a year that reminded me of my resilience. It showed me that even on the hardest days, I can rise, grow, and keep moving forward. Every tear, every stumble, and every tough moment was a step toward becoming the person I am today—and the person I’m striving to be in 2025.

Looking ahead, I’m filled with hope and excitement. 2025 feels like a fresh start, a blank canvas waiting for vibrant colors and bold strokes. It’s the year I’m committed to showing up for myself in ways I never have before—by chasing my dreams unapologetically, embracing joy, and making space for what truly matters.

Here’s a quick recap of the big goals I’m bringing into the new year:

1. Travel More: From exploring Oklahoma’s rich history to venturing abroad, 2025 will be a year of wanderlust and discovery.

2. Love Myself Harder: Prioritizing self-love, setting boundaries, and celebrating every win—big or small.

3. Try New Things: Embracing new adventures, hobbies, and experiences that challenge me and make life more exciting.

4. Go After What Truly Makes me Happy: Pursuing what truly lights me up and brings meaning to my life.

5. Launch My Podcast: Creating a space for real, unfiltered conversations that feel like chatting with a best friend.

6. Grow This Blog into a Community: Making it a hub of inspiration, laughter, and connection for everyone who visits.

   
   

Goodbye 2024, 2025 is about embracing the unknown, stepping out of my comfort zone, and creating unforgettable memories. It’s about letting go of the fear of failure and replacing it with the thrill of possibility.

And the best part? I want you to be a part of this journey. Let’s inspire and support each other every step of the way. What are your big goals for 2025? Share them in the comments, send me a DM, or tag me in your posts using #CheyWithABlog. Let’s celebrate the wins, laugh through the missteps, and cheer each other on as we grow into our best selves.

So here’s to new beginnings and endless possibilities. 2025, we’re ready for you! Cheers to making it a year filled with adventure, love, and all the magic we deserve. Let’s do this—together. 🥂✨